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This is indeed troubling. I agree with you entirely about the dangers of "born in the wrong body" to children. Children believe authority figures, especially parents, teachers, and carers--which is why it's so important for us not to LIE to them! Furthermore, what does this kind of message communicate to disabled children, or those who have chronic illnesses? I bet they wish they could claim to have been "born in the wrong body," and demand a new one! Sheesh.

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Jun 17, 2023Liked by LoobyLou

A. N., at least one person on the inside agrees with you! I know of a book we made changes to so it couldn’t be seen as sending the wrong message. It bothers me a lot, but it’s more prudent to make the change—a social media pile-on could kill a book and the author’s reputation.

I told a close friend in my office about my feelings on this issue, and I had a breakdown afterward because if she had been militant, she could have gotten me in trouble. I can’t risk losing my income and my family’s health insurance. It’s a scary time.

Thank you for writing this. It makes me feel less alone.

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Someone has to lead the fight, and if there are as many who are in your camp as you say there are - and I do believe that - then perhaps you need to set up a system where you can join together anonymously until such time as there are enough represented to provide protection for all.

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